Love Quiz

If you are in love and you are afraid to reveal your feelings, there’s a big chance that you may be too aggressive with the person you love, exactly because you are too afraid to reveal your weakness.

As a result, you are too cold with them and you don’t help them in any way. Your behavior with them is not normal behavior. If they were any other person, you would not be so rude. As a matter of fact, you would not be rude at all, but kind and gentle.

However, because you are trying to hide your weakness in front of this special person, you are an iceberg with them, completely indifferent to their problems and pain. You never help them and never show any sympathy.

You are always afraid that they may interpret any kindness as a sign of weakness and conclude that you are dying of love. You are afraid that they will destroy you completely if they tell you that they don’t want you.

Because you are so afraid, you are never kind and helpful with them as you would be if they were not so special to you. Because of your fear, you hurt them. You are aggressive, insensitive, distant, and selfish—in other words, the perfect monster. Of course you cannot inspire love…

How romantic! Instead of smiling and being kind, you are rude, cruel, and absurd.

Perhaps you imagine that “when you’re finally together” you’ll be able to make him or her forget this image completely. You imagine that “they will understand your weakness” and forgive you for your cruelty.

You may even try to test their reactions and provoke them with a lot of painful experiences, in order to see if they are going to abandon you or if they are going to find another flirt. If and if and if, until you’re sure you can reveal to them the most secret feeling in the universe: the love you feel for them.

However, you are not considering a possibility that you should consider from the beginning: perhaps they won’t wait to see the other, nicer side of your personality after seeing how cold and immature you are.

Of course, you have to also realize that there are a few intelligent people in this world who can understand the meaning of human reactions and who will discover your secret, only because you are being aggressive instead of kind and gentle, as you would be if you were not trying to hide your feelings.

My advice is this: if you cannot be normal, pretend you are normal on purpose. Do many normal things in a very normal way, even though you may feel horrible because you believe that you should not be so kind with that special person, since it is obvious that they are going to understand that you desperately love them and that they can kill you with their rejection.

Pretend that they are not this special person, but somebody else not so important.

This is the only way to avoid the neurosis that will certainly dominate you if you insist on being cruel and distant, simply because you want to hide your feelings from the person you love.

I’m sure that at least once in your life you have met an ideal couple,  who everyone could see was very happy in being together.

What can you do so that you and your partner will be among the happiest  couples?

You have to care about learning many things about the person you love,  even before getting involved with them.

Love and happiness in life are hard to find, and even harder to be kept  for life. So, ideal couples are in fact very rare.

What can you do in order to find the ideal person for you, or how can  you judge the person you already love?

1.    You have to pay attention to their reactions. If they are selfish and  they don’t care about the way you feel, this means that you have to  think seriously if you really want to have an affair with them…

2.    There are 8 different psychological types that define everyone’s  personality. You have to have an idea of how they match together to see  if you and your partner really fit together.

3.    There are many dangers in a relationship that you must learn how to  avoid.

These are your basic first steps. But there are many more…

Pay attention to everything about the other person. Carefully analyze  their style, their answers, their behavior, everything you can.

Everything depends on your seriousness. Life is not a toy and the human  being is very wild, since he has already inherited too much absurdity in  the anti-conscience, the primitive part of his brain.

You have to be very careful so that you don’t get involved with people  that will only make you suffer!

If you want to be really happy in life, not only in love, as well as in  all fields, you have to learn how to transform your own personality  first of all, so that you’ll always be balanced and wise.

Besides that, you’ll know very well who the people that live around you  are, since you’ll have information about everything in your own dreams.

Be intelligent and responsible, and you’ll certainly find true love and  happiness in life, and they will not only last for life but will help  other people believe in love and happiness thanks to your example, since  you and the person you love will be an ideal couple admired by  everyone!

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Prevent Depression and Craziness through the scientific method of  Dream Interpretation discovered by Carl Jung and simplified by  Christina Sponias, a writer who continued Jung’s research in the unknown  region of the human psychic sphere.